tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-291831426744506816.post8993625576916934852..comments2023-10-17T07:41:01.330-07:00Comments on Told You I Was Ill: Domestic disharmonyhydrahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17050622432144268086noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-291831426744506816.post-19982509211685913892012-07-29T17:27:23.440-07:002012-07-29T17:27:23.440-07:00...but are you any closer to sanity?
I was also g......but are you any closer to sanity?<br /><br />I was also going to suggest renting.<br /><br />Just because it didn't turn out the last time, doesn't mean it won't this time, too.<br /><br />I have a whack load of things to say, but I'm not going to say any of them. I'm getting angry.<br /><br />All I'll say is you will have a breaking point. And this breaking point will change everything. I hate to see it come to that, but sometimes that's what it takes.<br /><br />xxxPerovskiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02288179080765960283noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-291831426744506816.post-23831836894604266012012-07-27T12:34:20.009-07:002012-07-27T12:34:20.009-07:00Thank you for your wise words, Haz. I don't wa...Thank you for your wise words, Haz. I don't want to rent because I did it for three years before moving in here, and threw away £36,000! It makes more sense for me to buy. If I rent, I shall be even further away from having my own home and stability, a home nobody could take away from me.hydrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17050622432144268086noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-291831426744506816.post-43874767819556886672012-07-27T01:31:53.966-07:002012-07-27T01:31:53.966-07:001. You didn't abandon him when he had a strok...1. You didn't abandon him when he had a stroke. You're still there, years later, putting up with abuse.<br />2. If you did have a stroke, would you want to be nursed by him in a flea-infested, freezing home?<br />3. If he did buy a new dishwasher and disconnect yours, you'd be one step nearer to getting your own stuff out of there. Your dishwasher could then be reunited with the rest of your stuff that's been in storage for years.<br />4. Why must you buy a new home? Why not rent an unfurnished place which is clean, warm, dry and free of fleas and abusive men?<br />5. In the meantime, is there a library nearby, or a room in an office or somewhere you could go during the daytime? You need working space which is clean, warm, dry and free of fleas and abusive men.<br />6. Your dental problems sound horrible and they can only be adding to your general feeling of frustration. <br /><br />I apologise for going into bossy mother mode! I once overheard my older daughter telling off the younger one. 'Number one, you should ..... Number two, I told you ... Number three, if I ever ... ' I realised that she was copying my style.<br /><br />I do hope you make some progress towards getting your own home.Haz1558https://www.blogger.com/profile/14894306434354775683noreply@blogger.com